This was one of the reasons I decided to come to Thailand to retire rather than other countries that I have visited and liked.
Thai women are family oriented, unspoiled, attentive to your needs, faithful and considered to be among the most attractive women in the world.
When I came here and met my girlfriend I told her that I wanted just one woman. I explained that I was not one to be dating a different girl every week. I was not one to be out going to the bars nightly. Not only is it expensive but there are better girls out there for you than bar girls.
If you are an eligible man you can meet Thai ladies here in Chiang Mai who are sincere about a long lasting relationship. If you treat your Thai lady well she will stay with you and bring you much happiness. Should your decide to get married to each other then it may bring you both an added feeling of security and longevity in the relationship.
Our service will help help you with all the details of moving here to Thailand. We will save you both money and time and make the transition to living in a new country easy and enjoyable. When you arrive we will be here to help and also should you need any information or assistance after you have settled in.
Some of our clients have asked us for help in meeting attractive, faithful Thai ladies who want a long lasting relationship, and we have helped them in that regards.
There are essentially 2 ways in which most eligible foreign men meet Thai ladies here in Chiang Mai.
 1/ Correspondence/Introduction Service
2/ Bars
2/ Our Way
Let's look at each of these individually.
1/ Correspondence/Introduction Service
A good way to meet a Thai lady who will likely be an ordinary girl and one that is not a bar girl. She may have a child or two and want to meet a foreigner for the security he will provide for her and her family.
In our research we have found that about half of these ladies have one or more children and that 90% speak limited English.
At the time of writing this webpage there are 2 such services in Chiang Mai and both are up for sale. So that tells me there isn't enough demand in this service.
We believe that this a good route to go if you want a nice Thai lady. But what we have found is that the correspondence/introduction services tend to make the initial contact easy and charge a premium to meet the Thai ladies.
One of our clients contacted one of these services and was told that he could contact the ladies "for free". When he sent in the numbers of the ladies he selected he was told that NONE of THEM wanted to meet him. Hmmmm. not what I would recommend for our clients.
When we started our website we offered a Correspondence/Introduction service but we dropped it after we found that men did not want to pay for the service and did not understand the work involved such as translating the correspondence to Thai and back to English and no service can do this for free.
If you are going to utilize an Introduction Service keep in mind that if the service is not in the city where you live that the lady is unlikely to live nearby. That brings in added costs of her travelling to see you, of you travelling to meet her family and days apart while she is visiting her parents and you will be paying for transportation there and back.
At this point in time we would not recommend any Correspondence or Introduction service in Chiang Mai.
2/ Bars
Well this is the way in which most men who do not know any better think they will meet Thai ladies when they retire here.
Sorry to spoil the party but these ladies have been around the block a few times and make 1-3,000 baht a night and if you think you are going to take them away from the bar you better ante up 20-40,000 baht a month to them as this is what they will lose by not working at the bar.
Also many of the bar girls have boyfriends and are married. What? You thought they were all single and available?
Our clients are mature and have done the bar scene and most want to find a nice Thai lady in another manner. Keep in mind that bar tabs, drinks, bar fines, and ladies drinks are expensive. During high season prices go up and bar fines will run 500-700 baht, several ladies drinks 200 baht and a couple of drinks for yourself 240 baht and then a bar fine can range from 1,200-2,600 baht so in total for one night the cost is 2,140 - 3,740 baht plus incidentals such as snacks, meal and transportation.
If I see a man in a bar having a drink it tells me that the man does not have a Thai girlfriend as the Thai girlfriend would certainly disaprove. Is the man happy? I doubt it. To live here happily a man needs a nice Thai g/f if he is a heterosexual and here on his own.
So when you come here to retire my advice is to stay away from the bars if you want to meet a nice Thai lady.
2/ Our Way
There are other much better ways to find a nice Thai girlfriend and one that is attractive, and who is actually looking for and wants a farang boyfriend such as you irregardless of your age or looks.
The retirement clients we have had so far have ALL found a Thai g/f. ALL but one found with our advice and assistance and one found on his own.
So our way works and it doesn't cost an arm and a leg. No bar fines, no bar tabs, no ladies drinks and you don't become an alcoholic in the process.
We have located attractive and attentive Thai ladies here who want to meet foreigners who intend to retire to Thailand or Chiang Mai. These ladies are sincere and will likely make excellent companions/girlfriends and wives provided the farang (foreigner) upholds his end of the living together bargain.
Each month we will host a private day tour.
The tour will include pickup at your place of accommodations, followed by lunch at a lakeside setting with delicious food, then a romantic boat cruise, and then we move on to a local nightspot for the remainder of the afternoon where a musician will play soft music and liquid refreshments and potato salad, wings and pizza will be available.
Now you may not be interested based on the above description but if I told you that there would be 4 men and 6 lovely sincere Thai ladies then perhaps you may reconsider. The Thai ladies want to meet you.
The day before the event we will have a meeting with the men and this is based on first come first served availability. We will meet with the men who are Chiang Mai retiree's or soon to become Chiang Mai retiree's and explain how to find a nice Thai lady without going the introduction route or the bar route.
Once you understand how Thai relationships work and what you should do and what to avoid you are more likely to find the right lady for you and for the relationship to endure.
Photo's of some of the ladies will be shown on this page and when they are no longer available then we will show photo's of the new ladies.
Kwan is 18 years old.
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Pui is just 27 years old.
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Mae is 26 years old.
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We would highly recommend that eligible men meet Thai ladies as soon as they arrive because a Thai girlfriend will help you reduce your living costs, and also enable you to do more in terms of seeing the popular tourist attractions inside of and outside of Chiang Mai.
Should you meet a Thai lady and want to communicate with her then you will likely find it difficult as most Thai ladies speak limited English. If you find yourself in this position and need assistance in translating your e-mails and correspondence from Thai to English and back to Thai then we recommend ThaiChitChat.com and just click on the banner below to visit their website.
Chiang Mai is not a sex town. For those looking at chasing after different women every night, this is not the place you should go. Chiang Mai is a more laid back city where the bars close early compared to some cities.
So if you are an eligible man your looks are not that important, and it does not matter if you speak some Thai or not. You can find a lovely Thai lady who will bring much happiness to your life and make living in Chiang Mai more affordable and worthwhile.
Thousands of farangs have settled down here in Chiang Mai with a Thai lady and from what I have seen they are happy. So that tells me something. Either it is the climate, the food, the affordability or the Thai lady who deserves the credit and I believe it is the Thai lady who deserves 90% of the credit for farangs living here and living here happily.
I was lucky. I found the right person for me quickly. She has made me very happy. She speaks English fairly well and my Thai still is very basic. But we communicate well and understand each other. I only wish I could have come here to Chiang Mai sooner.
Normally Thai women look for a man who is not going to cheat on them, a man who is capable and willing to provide for them, a man who has a good heart. Looks are secondary in their selection criteria.
We have met some very nice Thai ladies who have asked us to help them find a foreigner to share their lives with. And we know that our clients are men with good hearts, who want to find a nice Thai lady quickly and begin living a happy life together.
If you a retiree in Chiang Mai or plan on retiring here and want to understand how relationships work and meet some lovely ladies who want to meet you then just us an e-mail telling us about yourself.
Just e-mail - admin@retire-on-550-month.com
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